Monthly Archives: November 2014

RIP Nemo :’(

Today one of my fish died. He was a fancy (overbred) goldfish and he got is tail caught (an subsequently torn to shreds) twice today so…I did the merciful thing. Very sad. Still have 3 others… Poppy, SharkBait and Arianna. But I am quite sad about Nemo.

days 4&5

Sooo… I’ve slacked off and am now doing a 2-for-one special!

4) Do you switch into a dominant role at any time? If you are in a domestic discipline relationship, are there things that you maintain control over? Are you a “switch” in BDSM terms? If not, have you ever thought about it or given thought to why it’s not for you?

The only time I normally switch to a more dominant role is when my Master wants me to…. so I suppose it is then service topping. The only other time that it may come up is with another cisfemale… I tend to feel more masculine/ powerful in that sort of situation, espacially in a threeesome. Like Alpha sub or somethin’. I am uncomfortable being dominant for any length of time with Master tho… feels hella awkward.

5) Have you been or are you in a dominant/submissive dynamic relationship or is this new to you? Have you been in more than one D/s relationship? How were they the same? How were they different? What is unique about your relationships in your mind?

Thisis my first D/s relationship. Ummm… not sure how to answer the rest of this, sorries.

day 3- 30 days of submission

3) How do you know you are submissive or have the potential to be submissive? How do you feel when you express your submission?

I am not quite sure how I know I’m submissive… other than it feels right when I submit to Master. I feel fulfilled when exprssing my submission.

day 2- 30 days of submission

2) Describe who you might submit to and how. Are you exclusively submissive in marriage or just in the bedroom? Are you submissive only in the context of a scene or in a role or throughout your daily life? Are you submissive to play partners or only in the context of a relationship?

Mostly I am submissive to Master. Otherwise it is to whomever Master says I should be submissive to.

Good Day Off

I work so damn much it is rare to have a day off at home but today was. We were even kiddo free so… we slept til noon. We had a wonderful day together… even played some vde games :3. Goodnight for now

day 1- 30 days of submission

Since I have never really blogged well before I thought a good way to start would be the 30 days of submission meme. So here goes…

1) Does your submission – either what you practice or what you strive for – have a label? Do you view your submission as Taken in Hand, domestic discipline, top/bottom, dominant/submissive, master/slave, owner/pet, or some other description or combination? If you do not use a label, why?

Well Master/pet would be how we generally define it, though it ius a bit moe than that. He is My Master always but I interchange between being more domestic/slave to more lg to a straight up kitten… though it is like a sliding scale more… I’m always all three but often oneor the other is in the forefront during my real service time (when the kid isn’t present). I actually feel my most sexual when my kitty is strong with a good dose of slave on the side :3.